A Time To Grow

 

Introduction

 

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elcome to this series of studies, “A Time To Grow.” There are two major parts featured in the New Testament. (1) How to obey the gospel to become a Christian. (2) How to live, serve, worship, and grow as a Christian. Both of these are extremely important and essential to be pleasing to God. In fact, obedience is the only way to be acceptable to God the Father.

 

            This is the way that Jesus, God’s Son, pleased His heavenly Father: “though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He suffered. And having been perfected, He became the author of eternal salvation to all who obey Him,” (Hebrews 5:8,9).

 

            The lessons in this series focus on growing as a Christian. Most of the books of the New Testament are directed to Christians to help them remain faithful and to spiritually grow.

 

            Therefore, growth is important in both the physical and spiritual kingdoms of God. In nature, we have seen both plants and animals that did not properly grow, and such experienced unpleasant circumstances.

 

            However, it is even more serious when Christians do not grow spiritually, because this produces weakness and death.

 

            Thus, it is important to first study and obey how to become a Christian, and then study how to grow to be pleasing to God. Therefore, would you please study these lessons, answer the questions, and then click on the grading key to determine your scores?

 

            To help you find the answers to the questions, you will find a number in brackets, or a Scripture reference, at the end of each multiple-choice question. This number indicates the paragraph number where the answer can be found. A Scripture reference is given after each True or False question, to help you find the correct answer.

 

            May these lessons be a blessing to your life and soul is my sincere prayer.

 

                                                            —Benny B. Bristow

 

 

 

Growing In Christ

 

LESSON  ONE

 

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mong the many beautiful things in life is the concept of growth. We see its beauty especially in the season of spring in the plant kingdom. For the passing of the weeks, turns tiny seeds into fragrant and colorful flowers. All of this happens because of God’s principle of growth. [1]

 

            Growth is also a picture of beauty in the animal kingdom. What a thrill it is to observe the tiny animals, birds, and other living creatures grow into maturity. Yet, without doubt, the most beautiful example of physical growth is the tiny baby who  grows  and develops month by month, into adulthood. [2]

 

Spiritual Growth

            However, we need to be reminded that of all the things that respond to growth in the world, there is nothing that is more beautiful and important than spiritual growth. Why is this so? Because it is a growth toward eternal life. Those who think only of physical growth are growing toward death, because their souls are not growing for God. But it is different with those who are growing in Christ. [3]

 

            Paul explains: “Therefore we do not lose heart. Even though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day” (2 Corinthians 4:16). [4]

 

            Thus, the physical body grows toward death (Hebrews 9:27), but the soul in Christ grows toward life. The Christian life begins with a birth just as surely as the physical, yet these two births are completely different. [5]

 

            Jesus explains: “That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit“ (John 3:6). Without this spiritual birth, it is impossible for one to enter His kingdom. [6]

 

To quote Jesus: “Unless one is born of water and the Spirit, He cannot enter the kingdom of God” (John 3:5). [7]

 

He does not mention a single exception to His statement!

 

            Paul wrote: “Now this I say, brethren, that flesh and blood cannot enter the kingdom of God” (1 Corinthians 15:50). [8]

 

            A physical baby cannot enter and grow in a family until he or she is born! Neither can one who is entering the kingdom (church), become a Christian and grow in Christ, without being born. [9]

 

            How does this birth take place? Jesus says that is done by “water and the Spirit.”  The Holy Spirit gives complete instructions through the word, on how to obey God to the point of receiving this new birth.

 

            So far in this study, we have looked at God’s first condition that must be met before there can be growth. We have found that one must be born into the kingdom by being born  of  water and the Spirit. However, once this beginning is completed, there are also other conditions that must be met before there can be acceptable growth. [10]

 

Food Is Essential

            The first thing on the agenda immediately following birth is food. It is not uncommon to hear someone say, “our baby was born ready to eat.” This is the way God created all of us, so that growth can begin immediately. [11]

 

                         The same is true in the spiritual! Before there can be growth, there must be food. [12]

 

            This is why Peter wrote to Christians: “as newborn babes, desire the pure milk of the word, that you may grow thereby” (1 Peter 2:2). [13]

 

            Many who are born into the kingdom eventually die because they starve to death. Instead of feeding daily upon God’s word, they feast upon the fleshly things of life. They do not hunger and thirst after righteousness, therefore, they are not filled (Matthew 5:6). [14]

 

            It is an ugly picture to see children starving to death in certain parts of the world where there are famines, and we may long to share some food with them. But have you ever considered how God sees those who are born into His kingdom who become starved from a lack of His word? [15]

 

            Do you have a plan in your life to study daily God’s word? We all have a plan to eat our daily physical meals, because we know that this is essential if we are to have healthy, happy lives. [16]

 

            However, it is just as true that the only way to have a healthy, happy life in Christ is to have a daily plan of Bible study. Why is this? Because it is God’s ONLY way for growth. [17]

 

            The apostle Peter closed his second book with the following admonition: “but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.  To Him be the glory both now and forever” Amen. (2 Peter 3:18). [18]

 

            Peter knew that this kind of growth would be possible only from the pure word of God. [19]

 

Exercise Is Essential

            Another essential condition for Christian growth is exercise. The newly born infant begins immediately moving his or her arms and legs. As the weeks and months pass, their exercise program intensifies! What are they really doing? They are growing. [20]

 

            Those born into Christ must immediately become actively involved in spiritual works. There are souls to be taught, visits to be made, and souls to be saved. In the words of a song, “There is work on every hand.” [21]

 

            Godly exercise is the most important exercise in our lives. Paul summed this principle up in these words:

 

            For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come” (1 Timothy 4:8). [22]

 

            Therefore, get involved for the Lord, and continually look for opportunities to serve. When we are willing to exercise, we will find work to do. [23]

 

Environment Is Essential

            Finally, environment is important for Christian growth. As Christians, we cannot help living in a world that is seeking sin; however, we can refuse to become a part of its environment. Paul wrote: [24]

 

            “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God” (Romans 12:2).

 

            Remember, there is no way that we can love the world and still love God (1 John 2:15,16). [25]

 

            When we become Christians, we begin a NEW life as a NEW creation in Christ. As Paul so beautifully put it: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new” (2 Corinthians 5:17). The “all things that become new” includes the way we live, the way we serve, the way we work, and the way we treat others. [26]

 

            Among the many teachings of Jesus, He set forth a rule that is so powerful that it sums up the way we treat others. In fact, it is so important that many have referred to it as the Golden Rule. “Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them”  (Matthew 7:12). [27]

 

            This statement has been paraphrased in various ways, but the essence of it is, “In everything, treat others the way you want to be treated.” [28]

 

How does this truth apply to your life?  Be assured that those who follow this rule will be different from the world, because it will remove selfishness from their lives. Someone has said that the Golden Rule moves us from selfishness to self-forget-fullness! The Good Samaritan who stopped to help a man who had been beaten and robbed, by binding up his wounds, placing him on his own animal, taking him to an Inn and paying his bills, was living the Golden Rule (Luke 10:34). [29]

 

            He did for this man the exact things that he would have wanted, if he had experienced the same. This Good Samaritan said by his actions, “What is mine is mine, but I am willing to share it!” [30]

 

            The one who beat and robbed the man was living by the rule of the world: “What is yours is mine, because I’m going to take it!” [31]

 

            Therefore, let us grow so that we can daily overcome the world! [32]

 

Review Questions For Lesson 1

(Circle the Most Correct Answer: A, B, or C)

 

 1. A word describing how often one should study God’s word [16]

(a) Occasionally   (b) Daily  (c) Weekly

 2. That to which the soul in Christ grows [5]

(a) Death   (b) Sin  (c) Life

 3. “godliness is profitable for --- things” (1 Tim. 4:8)

            (a) Great   (b) All  (c) Many

 4. That to which Christians should not be conformed (Rom. 12:2)

            (a) Life   (b) World  (c) Others

 5. Something that faithful Christians do not lose (2 Cor. 4:16)

            (a) Friends   (b) Heart  (c) Understanding

 6. Another essential condition for spiritual growth [20]

            (a) Exercise   (b) Food  (c) Vitamins

 7. Something to be done before entering the kingdom of God (John 3:5)

            (a) Meditate   (b) Experiment  (c) Be Born

 8. A beautiful example of physical growth [2]

            (a) Animals   (b) A Baby  (c) Flowers

 9. Christians should hunger and thirst after this (Mt. 5:6)

            (a) Righteousness   (b) Attention  (c) Companions

10. Something beautiful in life [1]

            (a) Death   (b) Acceptance  (c) Growth

11. Something to be renewed (Rom. 12:2)

            (a) Goals   (b) Minds  (c) Plans

12. That toward which the physical body grows (Heb. 9:27)

            (a) Death   (b) Wisdom  (c) Loneliness 

13. One of two ways to spiritually grow (2 Pet. 3:18)

            (a) Weary   (b) Tired  (c) Grace

14. Spiritual food: “milk of the ----” (1 Pet. 2:2)

(a) Word   (b) Faith  (c) Soul

15. Something that Christians should seek opportunities to do [23]

(a) Rest   (b) Serve  (c) Rejoice

16. The new birth: “----- and the Spirit” (John 3:5)

            (a) Faith   (b) Hope  (c) Water        

17. The most important kind of growth [3]

(a) Spiritual   (b) Physical  (c) Steady

18. “That which is born of flesh is flesh, and that which is born of Spirit is ------” (John 3:6).

(a) Spirit   (b) Heaven  (c) Mysterious

 

TRUE OR FALSE:  (Circle “T” for true; “F” for false)

 

T    F     1. “Flesh and ------- cannot enter the kingdom of God” (1 Cor. 15:50). Blood

T    F     2. The kind of exercise that profits a little (1 Tim. 4:8). Godliness

T    F     3. This is appointed for all to do (Heb. 9:27). Die

T    F     4. “That which is born of the flesh is -------- (John 3:6) Spirit

T    F     5. Those who do not abide in the doctrine of Christ do not have this one  (2 John 1:9). The Devil

T    F     6. The exercise that is profitable for all things  (1 Tim. 4:8). Godliness 

T    F     7. ”But grow in the --------- and knowledge of our Lord(2 Pet. 3:18). Truth

T    F     8. Something belonging to God. Kingdom (John 3:5).

T    F     9. Jesus referred to these, as to how they grow (Lk. 12:27). Roses

T    F    10. The word of God is compared to something that is pure (1 Pet. 2:2). Milk

T    F    11. That which happens daily to the inward man of a Christian (2 Cor. 4:16) Decays

—BBBristow

 

Walking

As Jesus Walked

 

LESSON TWO

 

T

he greatest goal that any Christian can have is to walk as Jesus walked. Please remember that Christianity is a “go” and a “walking” religion, because it is a special way of life. Too many people who claim to be Christians, want a “name only“ kind of religion. This may be possible in some religions of the world, but not so with Christianity! [1]

 

            Jesus, our Master, set the pace for Christianity. He was busy every day doing the work of His Father, and if we follow Him, we must also be busy. [2]

 

            It is said of Jesus that He “went about doing good“ (Acts 10:38). This is the only way that we can grow as faithful Christians and reap eternal life. [3]

 

            Paul gave these encouraging words: “And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart” (Galatians 6:9). [4]

 

            May we sincerely study how Jesus walked so that we can have Him as our model and goal to do the same? [5]

 

Jesus Walked To Glorify God

            When one sincerely studies the life of Jesus, it becomes obvious that He had only one way to look at life—He looked God-ward!  As the light of the world, He filled His life only with that which was good. Jesus lived, taught, and illustrated the importance of a life that was filled with light. [6]

 

              He said, “The lamp of the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is good, your whole body will be full of light. But if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. [7]

 

            If therefore the light that is in you is darkness, how great is that darkness!” (Matthew 6:22,23). [8]

 

            Jesus also walked in a way that glorified His Father, so that His Father would glorify Him. Jesus began His famous prayer for unity, before entering the Garden of Gethsemane to suffer, with the words: “Father, the hour has come. Glorify Your Son, that Your Son also may glorify You” (John 17:1). [9]

 

            Therefore, if we are going to walk as Jesus walked, we must also seek to glorify our Father. [10]

 

            How do we as Christians glorify Him? Remember, it all begins when we are born again and begin wearing the glorious name Christian. [11]

 

            Over the years there have been those who were able to say, “I am a king,” or “I am a Queen,” or “I am a president.” They have (as they should) worn these titles with much honor. However, these honorable titles are nothing compared to those who can honestly say, “I am a Christian.” [12]

 

            Over the centuries, many have been persecuted and even died for the name Christian. Peter wrote: “Yet if anyone suffers as a Christian, let him not be ashamed, but let him glorify God in this matter” [footnote: in this name] (1 Peter 4:12). [13]

 

            The apostle Paul spent his life trying to make Christians. When King Agrippa told Paul, “You almost persuade me to become a Christian,” Paul replied, “I would to God that not only you, but also all who hear me today, might become both almost and altogether such as I am, except for these chains” (Acts 26:28,29). Paul wanted the whole world to glorify God as Christians! [14]

 

            Do you, as a Christian, glorify God by letting your light shine for others to see? Jesus said to His disciples: “You are the light of the world” (Matthew 5:14). What made it possible for them to shine forth this kind of light? The answer, they were reflectors of Christ. [15]

 

            When Paul said, “For to me, to live is Christ,” (Philippians 1:21), he could have just as truthfully said, “For to me, to shine is Christ!” [16]

 

            Why did Jesus want His disciples to shine before men?  His answer: “that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:16). [17]

 

            Are we shining like a city set on a hill, or do we keep our lights under a basket? Remember, a covered light never glorifies God! [18]

 

            But if we walk as Jesus walked, we will also glorify God with our whole being. [19]

 

            When God created us, He gave us a body and a soul, and both of these can, and must, glorify Him. At the time that Paul wrote his first letter to the church at Corinth, they were not glorifying God in their lives. They had allowed various types of sin to enter their lives, and Paul was so displeased with them. After pointing out to them various kinds of sins, he admonished them with these words: “For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s” (1 Corinthians 6:20). [20]

 

            Are we walking as Jesus walked by glorifying our Father in heaven? [21]

 

Jesus Walked To Please God

            One of the greatest enemies in being a Christian is self. As Jesus walked daily upon this earth, He disregarded self to please His Father. He came to earth with the noble goal of doing His Father’s will. It had been written in the book of Psalms that He would do this. “Then I said, ‘Behold, I have come—in the volume of the book it is written of Me—to do Your will, O God’ “ (Hebrews 10:7; cf. Psalm 40:7,8). Jesus fulfilled this completely in His life! [22]

 

            How does this compare to our lives as Christians? Do we delight in pleasing God or in pleasing self? Are we guilty of continually drifting away from God? Do we need to be constantly reminded that we must please Him? Are we walking as Jesus walked in faithful obedience to God? [23]

 

            Jesus kept Himself under control as He lived and walked upon this earth, and disregarded self. Perhaps the greatest test came to Him as He prayed in great agony in the garden. At this hour, Jesus was walking in the very shadow of the cruel cross of pain and suffering. The bitter cup was almost lifted to His lips. Therefore, this led Him to kneel down and pray, “Father, if it is Your will, remove this cup from Me” (Luke 22:42). Then His request was followed with these words: “nevertheless not My will, but Yours be done.”  [24]

 

            Is this the way we pray and live? Or, do we make excuses to put off doing the Father’s will? [25]

 

            There are those who say, “Well, I would like to do more for the Lord, but I’m just too busy now.” Others say, “I’ll get busy for Jesus and do the Father’s will someday!” But far too often, someday never comes. Many die, doing their own will while promising someday to do the will of the Father. This is NOT walking as Jesus walked. [26]

 

            Here is the way that Jesus said it must be: “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me” (Luke 9:23). [27]

 

            The rich young ruler who came to Jesus seeking eternal life, did not receive it because he would not give up his own will to follow the will of God (Matthew 19:16-22). This young man left Jesus very sorrowful because he was not willing to disregard self and to walk as Jesus walked. [28]

 

Jesus Walked With A Love

For Lost Souls

            When you think of Jesus, what is the first thing that comes to your mind? Is it His teaching, His miracles, His compassion, or His parables? The list of great things accredited to Jesus is outstanding and long. However, the bottom line of all the things that He came to earth to do, is that He came to seek lost souls. [29]

 

            When Jesus came to earth, there had been many renowned spokesmen among the prophets of the past. In fact, even great and powerful miracles had been performed. But no one, not even Moses and all the other outstanding prophets, could give salvation! [30]

 

            Moses could provide leadership and stand between the nation of Israel and God. Aaron could provide leadership through the Levitical system with its fullest strength to all other tribes. However, not even the powerful prophets such as Isaiah, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, Daniel, and all the others prophets, could give salvation. They could only speak of the Messiah to come! [31]

 

            Only Jesus could speak the words recorded in these verses:

 

             For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost” (Matthew 18:11).

 

            I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me” (John 14:6).

 

            I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly” (John 10:10). [32]

 

            Therefore, Jesus walked with urgency toward saving souls. They didn’t need to learn about salvation someday into the future, but they needed to hear about it NOW!  [33]

 

            Because of this truth, Jesus taught: “Do you say, ‘There are still four months and then comes the harvest‘? Behold I say to you, lift up your eyes and look at the fields, for they are already white for harvest!” (John 4:35). [34]

 

            The Lord wants every Christian to seek lost souls. Even though our abilities and methods may be different, we all have the same goal—to teach and save the lost through the gospel of Jesus Christ (Romans 1:16). If all of us will do our part to teach this gospel, then souls will be saved. This is the way that Jesus walked. [35]

 

            Jesus provided for us the saving gospel by giving His life, but after we are saved, we must share this good news so that others can be saved. When we make every effort to do the things studied in this lesson, we can be assured that we are walking as Jesus walked, and that we are responding to God in a way that will keep us growing and becoming stronger spiritually day by day. [36]

 

 

Review Questions For Lesson 2

(Circle the Most Correct Answer: A, B, or C)

 

 1. Christians are ---------- of Christ [15]

            (a) Children   (b) Reflectors  (c) Enemies

 2. “For to me, to live is ------” (Phil. 1:21)

            (a) Hope   (b) Faith  (c) Christ

 3. The way Jesus always looked [6]

(a) God-ward   (b) Earthly  (c) Outwardly

 4. Something made to put off doing the Father’s will [25]

            (a) Actions   (b) Attempts  (c) Excuses

 5. Jesus “went about doing -------” (Acts 10:38)

            (a) Worship   (b) Good  (c) Harm

 6. Something important that must be shared [36]

            (a) Gifts   (b) Good News  (c) Actions

 7. The kind of obedience that pleases God [23]

            (a) Occasional  (b) Shared  (c) Faithful

 8. One of two things used by Christians to glorify God (1 Cor. 6:20)

            (a) Feet   (b) Body  (c) Hands

 9. Jesus taught that if the eye is good, the body will be filled with this [7]

            (a) Light   (b) Sin  (c) Darkness

10. The greatest honor [10,11]

            (a) President  (b) King  (c) Christian

11. That to which Jesus offered rest (Mt. 11:29)

(a) Hearts  (b) Souls  (c) Bodies

12. That which Jesus is to Christians [5]

(a) A Servant  (b) A Worker  (c) A Model

13. One of two words that describe Christianity [1]

(a) A Walk  (b) A Goal  (c) An Occasional Experience

14 That which was already white for harvest (John 4:35)

(a) People   (b) Pathways  (c) Fields

15. That which Jesus asked from His Father (John 17:1)

(a) To be strengthened  (b) To be glorified  (c) To be saved

16. That which Jesus wanted to pass if it had been His Father’s will (Lk. 22:42)

(a) This cup  (b) This life  (c) This generation

17. Something of the Father that Jesus came to do (Heb. 10:7)

            (a) His service  (b) His battles  (c) His will

18. The location of a city to be seen [18]

            (a) A plane  (b) A Hill  (c) A valley

19. Something that Christians must never lose [4]

            (a) Battles  (b) Friends  (c) Heart

20. “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him ---- himself” (Lk. 9:23)

            (a) Discipline  (b) Deny  (c) Renew

 

TRUE OR FALSE:  (Circle “T” for true; “F” for false)

 

T    F    1. Paul almost persuaded this man to become a Christian (Acts 26:28) Festus

T    F    2. Sweat was compared to “great drops of ------------- (Lk. 22:44) Blood

T    F    3. The one who motivated Paul to live (Phil. 1:21) Barnabas

T    F    4. That which Christians must take up daily (Lk. 9:23) Cross

T    F    5. Something that Jesus wanted lifted up (John 4:35) Hearts

T    F    6. This is described as “the power of God(Rom. 1:16) Gospel

T    F    7. Jesus brought this in abundance (John 10:10) Joy

T    F    8. All Christians must walk in this (1 John 1:7) Light

T    F    9. That which the Son of Man came to save (Mt. 18:11) Lost

T    F   10. “And walk in ---------- (Eph. 5:2) Peace

T    F   11. That which Jesus learned from suffering (Heb. 5:8) Obedience

T    F   12. “For you were bought with a --------- (1 Cor. 6:20) Bounty

T    F   13. That which all Christians should be willing to do (1 Pet. 4:16) Suffer

T    F   14. A word associated with a book (Heb. 10:7) Pages

—BBBristow

 

GRADING KEY

After you have completed these two Lessons, you may want to click on The Grading Key to determine your scores. To finalize Your Score, Take From 100, 5 Points For Each One Missed In Each Lesson.

 

 

Score for Lesson 1 =                                              Score for Lesson 2 =